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My dad killed himself today. He hanged himself in the morning.
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I'm so sorry @Gigi sending love to you and your family.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Sorry to hear man. My condolences to you and the family 🫂 my mom was happy I called her
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I called my mom
Wow! I'm very sorry to read this.
So sorry for this loss. May he rest in peace. Your post shows that you are better equipped than most to deal with this. DFW and Camus also fascinate me and add to the richness of living each day in as much peace and joy as possible.
I dont love them.
My Dad is dead and my Mom is a homeless person. Enjoy that.
May he rest in peace. 🫂❤️🩹
I don't know what to say man, you are not alone 🤝
my deepest condolences
Mein herzlichstes Beileid 🫂
My deepest condolences, Gigi 🙏🫂🫂
Mein herzliches Beileid, Gigi. 🫂
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My deepest condolences Gigi💙🫂 I truly appreciate reading your writing.
My most sincere apologies from me for your horrible loss. Hoping you have been able to fully find your peace since last month and recover from your bereavement.
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for writing such a beautiful piece. It gave me a wider perspective on this subject, which unfortunately I have experienced too close to home.
In our darkest moments, we don’t need solutions or advice. What we yearn for is simply connection—a quiet presence, a gentle touch. These small gestures are the anchors that hold us steady when life feels like too much.
Please don’t try to fix me. Don’t take on my pain or push away my shadows. Just sit beside me as I work through my own inner storms. Be the steady hand I can reach for as I find my way.
My pain is mine to carry, my battles mine to face. But your presence reminds me I’m not alone in this vast, sometimes frightening world. It’s a quiet reminder that I am worthy of love, even when I feel broken.
So, in those dark hours when I lose my way, will you just be here? Not as a rescuer, but as a companion. Hold my hand until the dawn arrives, helping me remember my strength.
Your silent support is the most precious gift you can give. It’s a love that helps me remember who I am, even when I forget.
Ernest Hemingway
Mein herzlichstes Beileid
Das ist leider so traurig, mein Beileid😿
PART OF THE SOCIETAL PENDULUM SWINGING BACK NEEDS TO BE NOT ONLY CREATING BUT REUNITING FAMILIES.THIS IS BRUTAL, I'M SO SORRY GIGI 🙏
Sorry about your loss Gigi
Mein herzliches Beileid 🖤
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🫂 mein herzliches Beileid Gigi. Deine Worte sind immer wunderschön.. hoffe mit diesen Worten kann ich dir etwas zurück geben..
Die Sanduhren erinnern nicht bloß an die schnelle Flucht der Zeit, sondern auch zugleich an den Staub, in welchen wir einst verfallen werden.
- Georg Christoph Lichtenberg
Mein herzlichstes Beileid, lieber Gigi ❤️🙏🙏😓
@Gigi you are not alone, dear soulmate 😓💫❤️
God rest his soul. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Sorry, take care.
May you find peace, in time, Gigi. Sending big hugs.
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My condolences.
I followed your advice. It felt great.
Thank you Gigi.
I'm very very sorry for your loss. All the best, Gigi.
I'm sorry for what you are going through now. I lost my father this spring. I know how it is. Stay strong and keep his words and teachings. God bless you! Prayers for you and your family!
Sorry for your loss, Gigi. Stay strong 🧡
So sorry to hear that.
it is a special honour to read your elegiac, Gigi. Many prayers and thoughts for you and you family during this tragic day. Warmest regards.
Ah shit dude.... there are no words. My father killed himself too. I have a small idea of the pain you must be feeling. May God be with you and gaurd your heart.
There Are no words. Suicide, specially ofa parent cuts so deep.
Call your parents. Tell them that you love them. Do it now.
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My dad killed himself today. He hanged himself in the morning.
Mein Beileid und ganz viel Kraft! 🧡
condolences to you and your family 🫂
Oh my goodness I am so sorry to hear this Gigi
Sinceres condoleances
condolences 😶
It’s okay to crumble, it’s okay to cry,
To ask the aching question, “Why?”
But through the shadows, one truth will remain: You are not alone.
Look, I can’t imagine the depth of your pain right now, and I won’t pretend to have the right words to ease it. But please know that you’re not alone. It’s okay to feel lost, angry, or broken, grief is messy, and there’s no right way to go through it. We are here for you, whether you need someone to talk to, sit in silence with, or simply lean on.
You are stronger than you feel in this moment, and though it may not seem like it, the days ahead will hold space for healing and love. Please don’t hesitate to reach out.
I'm sorry Gigi.
so sorry. sending you love and prayers ❤️
I hope writing helps you the way your writing helps all of us plebs Gigi.
love you man, sending my whole heart to you and your family. 🫂🫶🌄
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My deepest condolences 😔🙏
Even though we don't know each other that well, I am here for you brother
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Yesterday I was thinking of you, wondering how life is going there and today I read this piece. 💔
No words are adequate. Hand on heart, I sit with you in silence. Both my parents are gone. 🫂
Lots of love, you beautiful human being! Eliade's "eternal return" might comfort you in these moments of sorrow, for death is just a phase. Your wisdom brought peace and inspiration to many people, me included.
Biggest hugs your way 🙏
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I'm sorry for your loss 🙏🙏
So sorry Gigi. Thank you for sharing your thoughts in writing. May you heal and be well over time, as you process such a great loss in your life.
Sorry to hear this. How is were you? Life some times...
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So sorry to hear this Gigi. Absolutely devastating
The loss of your father made you write the best thing I have read in a long time which touched me immensely. I hope you live a good life remembering your father at his best. Condolences.
Praying for you and your family
Sorry for your loss my friend
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Sitting opposite my mother visiting the grand daughters…. Good times.
I’m so sorry brother
I'm so sorry man. Thoughts are with you and your family.
@Gigi my deepest condolences. May his soul rest in peace. You and your family will be in my prayers.
As a stranger on the Internet, I know that it might not be my place to say anything regarding the situation, but I've come to truly believe that God permits everything for a greater good even though as humans we may not be able to understand what that is:
Isaias (Isaiah) 55:8-9 DRC1752
[8] For my thoughts are not your thoughts: nor your ways my ways, saith the Lord. [9] For as the heavens are exalted above the earth, so are my ways exalted above your ways, and my thoughts above your thoughts.
You have a beautiful way with words and I was blessed to hear your message. Much love.
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I'm so sorry mate, I was touched by your words.
aww man I'm sorry Gigi. Sending love.
I'm sorry for your loss. God bless.
Mein herzliches Beileid @Gigi 🙏🏼🙏🏼viel Kraft dir und deiner Familie.. Es steckt viel Mut und Kraft dahinter solch einen Artikel zu schreiben..
praying for peace 🕊️
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My heart breaks for you and your family. I am so sorry. Take care of yourself my friend.
May the peace of God carry your through this valley. ♥️
You are not alone. Praying for you.
It's simply fight or flight, some flee further.
And if you are going to fight, dark humour is a necessity...
My condolences. May love, past and present, be a healing force.
I'm so sorry for your loss
I am really sorry for your loss.
R.I.P.
But just remember, this completely unnatural shitshow we have going on now is anti life, it's little wonder so many will go to such lengths to escape it...
So to the despotic progressives out there GFY.
Love you, brother.
Mein Beileid 💐
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I am sorry from the bottom of my heart! I wish the whole family a lot of strength.
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My condolences sir 🕊️♥️
A very close friend of mine committed suicide the same way last year. It is an incredibly hard thing to deal with. The only real healer is time. Sending love dude 🙏
Lieber Gigi, das tut mir so unendlich leid. Ich fühle mit Dir. The monster will always be there, but it lead me to Bitcoin. 🕯
I read this and immediately called my dad. My condolences.
So sorry Gigi.
I am so sorry for your loss dear Gigi 🙏 hang in there and hug your loved once even closer at this time
This is brutal man. Prayers for you and the rest of your family. Sorry to hear this.
My condolences. Love is a double edged sword which is always paid for in tears.
My deepest condolences.
Sincères condoléances mister Gigi, no words from strangers could probably ease your pain but Info hope that the presence of your loves ones is here for you.
I'm sorry @Gigi. I lost my brother the same way. Stay strong. Breathe. You are loved.
Sorry for your loss Gigi, my condolences 🫂 💜
Sending prayers for you and your family.
May his heart be at peace
and love bring healing to your family.
Thank you for sharing
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Big hugs my friend 🫂
Sending ❤️
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I'm so sorry, Gigi. Much love to you and your family 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
Thank you for sharing you life and you sorrows.
My condolences Gigi. 🙏
May he Rest In Peace and may Time heal your wounds.
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🧡 Gigi your post made me reach out to my dad. Thank you.
I am so sorry for your loss 🫂❤️
I'm sorry for your loss 🙏😞 God bless you and your entire family
Condolences and blessings Gigi
Oh Gigi, I’m so,so sorry 💔. Your father’s life mattered and I’m so glad that you can express your grief through writing. I feel certain that your words will help your healing as well as others who may be in the grips of depression or who has lost a loved one to suicide. Big hugs to you tonight friend.
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I've been ruminating about this since you shared. Wasn't sure what to say, if anything at all. The typical "Sorry for your loss" just seemed too hollow. Not disrespecting anyone else who said it. But I didn't want to seem cliche and I don't think such a loss can even be expressed in words. There isn't such words to even describe the emotions I can only begin to imagine exist. I just want you to know that my positive energy is with you and your family both physically and metaphorically. And I wish upon you all peace and love and happiness.
I’m so sorry for your loss
Mein herzliches Beileid Gigi, meine Gedanken sind bei dir und deiner Familie. Ein Teil von deinem Vater wird für immer in dir weiterleben, und mit deinen Taten berührst du andere Menschen, die wiederum dich in ihr Herz schliessen. 🙏🏼
I am deeply sorry for your loss and sadness. It is incomprehensible and surreal. My condolences and best wishes. You wrote beautifully. I am worried about you. Please reach out for help. Please speak with a psychologist about what happened and how it has made you feel. A psychologist is like a physiotherapist of the mind. Your burden is too heavy for one man to carry by himself. Please feel free to reach out to me as well. I can listen.
I am so sorry! Stay strong, man. 🤗
I've been panicking for over a year that Digit could be dead due to either suicide or cancer. But the cancer scares me even more than the suicide because if she killed herself at least it would be on her own terms and she would have been managing the fear of death. If it was cancer, that would mean she died scared and fighting it. I just hope she's alive and it doesn't feel fair to reply to this when you know you've lost someone and I don't know if I have. But I hope over time you can come to be less angry at your dad for going out on his own terms at a moment where he wasn't too scared.
So so sorry Gigi, i know what it means to loose a father, but can't imagine the pain of loosing someone i love to suicide. Thank you for the beautiful words.
Hello, Friend...
I call you "Friend," though you don't know me, because you have been my friend by thinking deeply and expressing your thoughts clearly in writing and making your writing publicly available to me to read. For this, I am grateful, and I thank you.
It is only today that I learned of your father's passing a month ago, and I am deeply saddened to discover your shattering loss. I am so very sorry, and I pray you and all your family may find comfort and healing as time goes on.
Elements in your comprehensive commentary on the situation give me hope that you will find that comfort, as you are obviously familiar with the teachings of Jesus.
I am fully persuaded that Jesus is in truth our Creator/God who became one of us in order that we might viscerally know and understand that he loves us. I commend you to him at this difficult time, urging you to look to him as the best source of authentic comfort. He triumphed over death itself--something no other human has been able to independently do--and promises like resurrection to his followers.
Even as bitcoin promises a bright financial future to those who embrace it, Jesus promises the most brilliant of futures in every dimension to those who commit themselves to him as their King.
I commend you to Jesus' care, and pray that you and your family may find much comfort now and in the coming days.🙏🏻😢💜🫂💖😀
Viel Kraft in diesen schweren Stunden lieber Gigi.
The weird thing is it doesn't help me when other people say this stuff. I might be more scared of the cancer, but if other people say the same kind of thing, I get scared they're the kind of person that wouldn't try hard enough to prevent the suicide and it reminds me how scared I am overall. I guess it's impossible for anything anyone says to really be helpful, except it's good to know humans will try.
💜😓 Stay strong! 🧡🫂
I feel so sorry for your loss.
Thank you for your powerful profound words. Your spirit is a great gift to the world. 🙏
One of the deepest and hardest text I've ever read
My condolences GIGI, wish you and your family the best and fastets overcoming of this as possible
Lots of love
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My dad killed himself today. He hanged himself in the morning.
Mein tiefstes Beileid 🫂
Das tut mir unfassbar leid Gigi 😔
Mein aufrichtiges Beileid🕯️Ich wünsche dir und deiner Familie von Herzen ganz viel Kraft 🧡🫂
Gigi, Your vulnerable raw words and deep perspective & wisdom moved me. The way you described the parts of the brain dying when one takes their own life reminded me of the interplay of cymatics… how frequencies and thoughts shape not just matter, but our inner realities. I couldn’t help but think of Dr. Emoto’s study on the frequency of water, where dark thoughts led to disease and death in plants, while affirmations and positivity nurtured growth and vitality. It’s as if the constant thoughts of despair in a suicidal mind create a destructive resonance, spreading like a cancer and leaving no room for light to enter.
Your reflections also brought back a personal memory…my uncle took his own life several years ago, he shot himself in the head, and at the time, I couldn’t understand why. The ripple of his belief in despair consumed him, and it was hard to grasp how someone so loved could be lost to the darkness within. But your words remind me of the profound impact of beliefs and how they shape us; much like cymatics reveals how vibrations create patterns. A belief in despair can ripple outward, but so too can a faith in goodness, offering healing and renewal.
Your light is a beacon, a lighthouse for so many who are wandering aimlessly in the darkness. The knowledge you share restores hope, offering freedom and a way out for those who might otherwise feel trapped. You are truly a bright light, and your courage to write about these deep and challenging topics is nothing short of inspiring.
Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss and the pain you’ve shared. Your ability to transform that pain into wisdom and healing for others is extraordinary. Thank you for being a source of hope, strength, and insight in a world that so desperately needs it. 🤍🙏🫂
Terribly sad to read this, @Gigi. sending you and your family love and condolences.
RIP🙏
The art of being free by Epictetus 🙏🧡
God bless you
He's flying with the angels 🤍✨️🕊
Very sad to read. Wish you force to process this and come out stronger!
So, so sorry for your loss, Gigi 🧡🫂
Sorry for your loss. My condolences 🫂
I am sorry for your loss. 😔
Was a beautiful read
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I am so sorry for your loss Gigi!! 💜 🫂
Omg just saw this now. I’m so sorry for your loss, and that post was amazingly deep and touching. 🫂
Sorry GiGi. 🫂
So sorry to read this Gigi. 😢 A truly moving piece of writing. Thank you for sharing it.
Visited my mom and sent her some pictures. 🫂
Super sad man, every day your post were an inspiration. Big loss mate.
Writing about things brings peace. You are a great inspiration and represent your father and mother. He is living through you and your siblings and his grandchildren. He created a beautiful lineage...
I offer my condolences and prayers and thank him for creating you. You are an incredible writer and contribution to the world. Thank you for sharing.
Do it right now, you never know when this window closes. 😭
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Sorry to hear this.
So sad, sorry for your loss. Beautifully writtten, brings tears to my eyes. You’re a treasure
I'm so sorry to hear this Gigi. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for finding the strength to write this moving piece and for reminding us that family is everything and to cherish every moment with them 🫂
This is the best thing I have read this year, sad, yet so good I had to read it twice, I don’t think there was an angle that wasn’t addressed in this article, sorry for your loss my brother
Dear Gigi,
I can understand you and your father at the same time. And it tears my heart into two equal pieces.
The last door of HOPE is chaos. We will all meet there at some point...
God be with you Gigi. I’m sorry about your dad. I think you’re going to have an amazing and long life… even if the monster hangs around
I’m so sorry to read this Gigi. A beautiful, heartbreaking read. October marked 16 years since my father ended his life. We have three children he never met. It still hurts. I still have questions. I also have so much love for him, and empathy for the challenges that led to his decision that changed us all forever. ❤️🩹
I echo your plea to call your parents and tell them you love them, even if it’s complicated. 🙏🏼
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I'll keep your family in my prayers. My condolences for your loss. Beautifully written article, by the way.