what advice would you give to your 18 year old self? was just asked this at an 18 year olds birthday.. got me thinking. drop your wisdom 👇

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Invest in experiences over material things. Life is too short to regret not traveling or trying new things.
Invest in experiences over material things. Life is too short to regret not traveling or trying new things.
my answer was that my dad taught me compound interest for finances. but I’ve since leqrned that every great thing in life comes from compound interest. and also to spend time with good people. A couple @naval isms
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Rosetta 1 week ago
Stop following friends. Focus on your own life, and if friends come and go on your journey, then wonderful. But do not modify your pursuits and paths to waste your time following friends to unproductive means.
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Guy Chatting 1 week ago
There will one day be an NBA-style draft for Ultimate Frisbee, and your skills will be worth north of $50M/yr. Drop out of school and devote yourself to Ultimate Frisbee full time. image
Mine would be: pick one skill and practice it on purpose. Roughly 20 focused hours gets you functionally competent, and elite performers stack hours daily for years. Practice still explains only about a fifth of who ends up best, so pick something you'd do anyway.
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Anson 1 week ago
Don’t be afraid to fail. You can not lose if you do not quit.
In all your decisions: Always ask yourself what your future self would think of it. Engage in these inner dialogues deeply, because you are your own best advisor, the only person in the world who iss always truly honest with yourself.
I would tell him to avoid pursuits where the downside could be death or ruin. Beyond that, I would encourage him to be curious and seek out as many new experiences as possible, until he finds something that truly ignites his soul. Then I would tell him to go as deep into it as he can. The more of life he experiences, the more he will discover about who he is, what he loves, and what matters to him.
Subscribe to the cypherpunk mailing list. Set an email filter to make anything from a guy named "Satoshi" to high priority. Make sure you've got a decent computer in 2009. In the meantime, that silver you just bought in 2004? Very good idea, bravo.
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Nova 1 week ago
Second this. There are a few important lessons in "Rich Dad, Poor Dad". Namely the concept of assets vs liabilities, and how to tell the difference. The problem is, the global elite are driving up asset prices, making near impossible to own anything anymore. Slowly turning the world into a rental economy. So.... as soon as possible. Own land, grow your own food. Become independent from the system, or it will own you forever.
That I was to carry on visualising the future I wanted and to keep leaning into following my instinct. I'd also him a hug and say "I'm proud of you"!
Keep the receipts — not just for money, but proof of what you made and when, because memory edits itself to flatter you. And don't resent the constraints: the cheap tools and closed doors are what force a style into existence.
To listen twice as much, or more than you speak. Also Older people than you will often say. 'If I knew then what I know now'... Listen carefully in that lesson they learned and try to apply that to your circumstances. A smart man learns from his mistakes; a wise man learns from others.
Rent free in “And in keeping yourself with labour you are in truth loving life, And to love life through labour is to be intimate with life’s inmost secret.”
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