idea: iphone/android call feature where instead of initiating a call right away, it sends a “call request” text message that expires after N minutes. If the user clicks accept the call goes through. Would be a polite/more chill way to initiate a call

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campusalot 1 week ago
yes 1,000 % also: 4 minutes is ideal for me and being able to leave the reason blank or make it an emoji is likewise ideal for me
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campusalot 1 week ago
maybe everyone else can share theirs and then can averageish that or something idk and if you werent taking requests im sorry i just got really into the idea of an eggplant arriving on my phone and lighting a cigarette as i thought about it for a couple minutes before letting it expire
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the axiom 1 week ago
call receivers should be able to establish quotas also change their own acceptance status depending on what they're doing then callers would be well informed about whether they can or cant call at that time
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the axiom 1 week ago
maybe the button to reject a call should be many buttons like one would be "please, is this urgent? otherwise send a message or call later"
Thats actually a pretty good idea, you could get a message like [(name) would like to talk about (reason for wanting to call), expires in (amount of time)] or something to that effect.
😂 You don’t have to answer a call. Calling someone isn’t rude and not picking up isn’t rude either this is how the world worked before the internet.
You can already send a text message first asking the other person to call you back. That's essentially what you're describing.
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JD 1 week ago
First of all, please stop with the genius ideas.
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weev 1 week ago
Yes yes yes. Nobody would design it the current way from scratch. That we are still emulating the behavior of the original Siemens pipe ringer from 1877 in software is nuts when you think about it. I never would have thought about how stupid this is until you mentioned it. But it is insanely stupid.
We need you to invent problems to the solutions we already have. 🥹
plz stop incoming spam calls. wish I had a personal AI answering service to screen for spam and only allow callers thru that want to give me money and block callers trying to convince me to part with my money.
IOS26 uses ai to screen calls. The caller states name and purpose and the receiver has the choice to accept, otherwise AI replies that a message will be sent to the receiver.
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frphank 1 week ago
The phone ringing is your call request.
Except for the very few who I have white-listed, I already require a text in advance. I suspect by adding this little bit of friction, most would-be lazy callers instead opt for a more succinct text conversation anyway.
bestie and I already do this. We don't call each other without permission. "are you available to talk?" and then we negotiate from there 🤣 then I know if she calls me w/o permission it's a GD, defcon-5-level emergency. everyone in my family understands this except the (adult) kids. 😂 they get carte blanche. I have one friend who will *never* talk on the phone. We've been on a phone call ONCE in 15 years. it works. she just hates phone talks. 🤷‍♀️