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I fully support this message. But I want to add one stipulation, if you aren't healed, recognize that and work together.
I found out my nephew committed suicide yesterday. If you’re struggling, please reach out to someone. 🙏
View quoted note →Response of ‘Fine’ in this instance I find to be a smouldering issue.
Openly saying ‘not great’ is a four letter word. The line between charisma, stamina and needing help is muddied at best.
Prod your friend as best you can. You’ll never regret helping them out if you can connect that way. I certainly wish I had tried harder a long time ago.
Trying to be a man while the state and inflation take all your earnings is tough. Hard to bear the responsibilities without the means. Worse for each generation coming down the fiat shit pipe.
If he's really down, buy him a Vagankle
And then our manhood is called out as the problem. It’s really tough times right now. But if we can get through this, we’ll become the strong men that create good times for the next generation.
Enough with the feet stuff 😭😂
Ask me thrice and watch me break down into tears 😭
I know I'm only man in name but, you okay buddy?
Yeah, I'm fine psssht 💪
The scene from good will hunting 😭
It's my fault 😭
women might sometimes underestimate how much suffering men can endure in silence, but when we extend love and kindness, it's also up to men to accept, rather than being bitter/avoidant - so it's convenient to place part of the blame on women.
we gotta be there for each other if we want our society to be strong and healthy, for everyone. your sister, your coworker, your wife, your mom. stranger on the street, the list goes on. love is the cure indeed.
let's all love each other 🧡
You sure?
Is it your fault or did you just not know any better?
I identify as a bro.
Yeah, wtf, I just told you 💪 😎
I let everyone down, including myself 😭
I’m doing alright this year has been tough but things are turning around a little.
How are you really doing though?
Everything’s temporary and there’s nothing you can’t handle.
(Does this count as being asked the first or 3rd time since it's a new asker?)
Do you think if someone else was in your shoes they’d struggle too?
#nostr group hug
I’m well, I’m trying to build a robot and I have no idea what I’m doing but I’ll figure it out. Probably with a couple engineers. The GATE program is paying off.
to be honest is to be open and vulnerable. to show you care is to be vulnerable.
vulnerability is seen as weakness, but it's really the source of our strength.
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Stay strong bro 💪🏻
Are you in college?
No I’ve been out of college for longer than I’m willing to admit. A stone carving robot.
excellent point
we have to shed the ego and be vulnerable in order to receive
<3
Idk if I would call vulnerability strength but maybe I’d call it self love. To have the courage to try and get help. Maybe humility too.
You’re an engineer?
No I’m a designer and now aspiring robot builder.
Wasn’t blaming women. It’s just that women are the ones that men expect help from. And women don’t always recognize when a man needs help because men often don’t ask for it. But most men can relate to suffering alone in silence. So that’s why I said it’s important for men to help each other.
Stop it! Please. I can't take it anymore!
No, alright?! I'm weak. I fucked it all up. Others may have struggled, sure, but others may not have, and there's no excuse given my circumstances.
Is that what you wanna hear? Huh?!
Friends, let's just support each other and be kind🫶🫶
We already live on harsh times, there is no need to make it even harder
Don’t forget to rest and add some joy to your life 🫂
Can’t tell if you’re serious or not
Joking lol. Mostly.
I keep it light here on the old nostr. I'm just a friendly lil green dude, no deep emotional scars here 😅
whatever it takes to heal and grow <3
I am an adult child. Trying to be a bit more serious this year. 🫂
Yeah, same. No scars. Just a green folk. Yup. That's the whole truth of it.
Right on, broski. Bunch of women on here sometimes, sharing their feelings, I tell you what. Sheehoo
There it is! All two people on #nostr
I believe that the biggest issue is men's wiring to "attack" problems. If someone shares a problem, you attack it and try to solve it.
Smarter men learned that's not always the best solution if the "problem" is shared by women, who basically use the gossip protocol as part of their healing network and are not necessarily interested in a solution (or a solution from you).
But as a man, you are pre-wired to share in order to solve things, and society kind of embraces this approach, to put it mildly.
So to really share, you need two self-aware sides who understand that what is about to be said is not necessarily a problem to solve, just something to share.
And that's rare.
This. Is. Real. We need to Be there for each other.
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