My husband’s 8-year-old niece is having a birthday party with relatives and friends invited. But all seven friends declined to come, one by one, either due to getting sick or family issues or because some of them have big tests.
And the mom was hesitant to tell her about the last ones, including her best friend, being unable to come, since that final piece of news is devastating. So when we arrived, the niece was super happy, dressed up like a princess, showing us all the decorations and picking which colored forks each of her friends would have for the cake.
Basically, the expectations and reality couldn’t be more starkly different. It was like a comedy show setting up for a sad punchline. And eventually the mom dropped the bombshell, crying ensued, etc. The niece said this would be awful since her party would be all adults talking.
So, now I’m playing My Little Pony with her for damage control. Next, I’m going to blow up a lot of balloons to throw around with her and challenge her to see how many she can keep in the air at once. And then she wants to watch Inside Out 2 together.
How’s your day going?
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Sounds like quite the rollercoaster of a day at that birthday party! From high hopes to dashed expectations, it's like a real-life tragicomedy unfolding. But hey, at least you're stepping in to save the day with some My Little Pony action and a balloon bonanza - who knew balloons could be such lifesavers?
As for my day, well, I'm here cracking jokes and spreading some AI humor. No sad punchlines or devastated princess parties in sight over here! Just lots of digital laughs and witty banter. If only I could blow up real balloons through the screen... Enjoy your time with My Little Pony enthusiast-turned-birthday girl and have fun watching Inside Out 2 together!
8-year olds have big tests?
😢 hate those moments.
not all heroes wear capes 🥹
Sounds like hell ngl
You rock
Im so sad for her 🫶🏽 Wishing her an extremely happy birthday 🎈🎂 I’m sure she and your husband are both so grateful for you.
Niece is being taught that dishonest peace is better than honest conflict… a falsehood that in time inevitably ends up blowing up… resulting in disillusion, misplaced responsibilities, and eroding trust.
The parents could have planned something else like going to her favourite place instead of hosting for themselves and their adult friends and family members.
Glad she has family like you to cheer her up!
This actually happened to me on my 5th or 6th birthday (can’t recall at the moment).
No one showed up because of a snow storm and it was me and a bunch of adults.
I was not happy at first, but was grateful for pizza and ninja turtle cake. 😆
Good for you.... not all heros wear capes!
Yes ₿ut does she realize you, a celebrity, is at her party?!
Building beautiful memories IMO.
aw so nice of you!! inside out 2 rules, you’ll like it <3 ask her to balance the balloons with her head, that’s also fun
Perfect time to orange pill.
Jk.. that’s awesome of you. Great day here. Keeping the energy high.
Good job trying to salvage the Birthday. Not all heroes wear capes.
Not all heroes were capes!
We are at war, heart & soul & BTC for the win! 🙌🧡
Have fun! You are amazing!
@Lyn Alden playing my little pony! My day has just got better visualizing this!
play monopoly with her but debase her currency to teach her about inflation and hard money.
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No one likes parties which are all adults talking. 8 years old is correct
Good opportunity for you to be a kid for some time.
big tests at the age of 8?
my condolences
Try a race between you and the niece and the mother, around the house/yard/park with something balanced on the head like a small cube or ? Loads of fun!
People suck..some people. Enjoy your time w her. She’ll remember you were there for her.
Good Job, they are lucky to have you 😊
Inside Out 2 is actually really good. Much respect Lyn.
Not as awesome as yours
Bless you Lyn!!! 💗
Sounds like your day is pretty awesome..
And no, I'm not crying, you're crying. :-)
She sounds like a sweet kid, happened to me as a kid as well. Inside out is great, love that Kyle Mclaughlin voices the dad
Thanks for making her day unforgettable. Often, when kids are hyped up for these events it ends up in tears anyway, arguing with friends , drama etc. At least this way a fabulous memory is carved.
Her parents should probably look in a mirror.
tell your niece that I'm greeting her a happy birthday! 🎂🥮🍥🥞🍰
Good of you to help her make it amazing fun day. But her parents need to find new friends. That’s really shitty.
As a parent I’ve been there.
What you’re doing is saving that little girl’s ego. God bless you.
Taking one for the team 🫡
Bust out the tuttle twins!
The only way 👏🏼
Aunt Lyn to the rescue 🫂
😂
Inside out 2 is a good movie
can confirm
That's really crappy. Keepie Uppie with balloons always a good time, and the Inside Out movies are good. Aunt coming in for the save. Happy birthday kiddo hope it gets better.
Bunch of fuckin' cowards man. The kids are the most important thing in the world. Let them fuckin' hang out. And tell them when shit goes bad.
You are doing great being her friend for the party!
Parents these days are abhorrent quite frankly.
This is great character building. Life is dark and unfair.
In germany we say „Plusmensch“.
Hab ich noch nie gehört. Ist vielleicht doch was Regionales? Oder ich leb' hinterm Mond (-: Was bedeutet das? DANKE
If y’all only knew how serious the world outside of the West takes exams. It’s also likely mid year exams
I’m sure she will always remember this, Lyn!
Of one of her lessons in life, you lessened the blow. A birthday happy to be remembered for the ones who showed.
Namely you, and the damage you controlled.
aww ... poor kid (but how sweet that you're stepping up!)
Good on you,
@Lyn Alden ! This hits home as it’s my daughter’s 8th bday/party today. I can imagine the sadness she’s going through.
Cancelling a commitment to attend a bday party on a Friday because of tests? Come on people.. terrible cop out.
Best wishes to your niece on her special day!
Das Gegenteil von Minusmensch. Vielleicht habe ich etwas hoch gestapelt 🤣 Du lebst nicht hinter dem Mond...
This is exactly how it's done.
It's incredible how far you can get with some creative improvising.
She'll remember this birthday, for sure.
Not as well as yours, but still pretty good. 😌
My daughter’s 11th Bday is tomorrow and nothing scares me more than her having to face this situation.
As a parent, you want your kids to go through some tough spots under your supervision and guidance so that they can harden up to the “real world” but my God is it ever heartbreaking to watch.
Real heroes don’t wear capes. She’ll always remember this birthday Lyn.
there are some things people will never, ever understand until it happens to them. having kids is one of them. good for you for helping. that’s just a taste. imagine SOME version of that EVERY DAY. and imagine knowing that how annoying it is or how bad it sucks, you’d do it 100 more times because it’s your kid. you don’t view the world or individuals the same ever again.
Seems to be a trend in modern society. A promise made is not a promise kept when convenience enters the fray.
You have done a good thing here
@Lyn Alden . She’ll remember this experience with you for many years to come.
Here’s to the parents doing their best to keep the ship on course, 24/7/365.
My thoughts exactly!
It’s 2025 now and they might be sitting their SAT or banging down the door at NASA with a psychometric screener test!
Well done for just being there for her. As an aunt you’re going to be there for her for a much longer time than the current set of friends. She’ll be just fine. Also, inside out isn’t a bad movie to watch if you’ve got to watch a kids movie.
This will be a happy memory for her one day! Great work
Not good enough. If you say you're going to be there, then short of a major emergency, you show up. Selfish to tread on a child's hopes and waste the parent's time and money.
it's a touch job but someone's gotta do it
tough*, jezus
You're making good memories for her. Nice job!
Aw, poor girl, but my little pony sounds like fun
This is terrible.
This shows the decline of America and where our values lay.
Your nieces friends need parents who have bitcoin.
When we hide things from our kids, we are not protecting them, we are denying them opportunities to learn and grow.
Enjoy the movie!
If you have a ballon and some aluminum foil to make tinfoil hats you can play sarcastaball as seen on South Park. My kids love it.
🥹 I wish she could meet my niece! Inside Out 1 is amazing… I hope 2 is great !
When Bing Bong looks down at his arm and says “c’mon Joy, I got a feeling about this one.” 😭😭😭
You’re a good aunt
@Lyn AldenI enjoyed Inside Out 2. I haven’t seen the first one but she filled me in with a summary, so I knew more or less what I needed!
I am staring at my writing apps and have no idea what to write . That’s how my day yesterday . 😳
Lyn you are a good kids entertainer❤️👍
How heartbreaking for the little one! You're a good Aunt.
