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2025-07-15 22:21:25 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Since I've read Hold onto your kids, even before, I've become very agitated against schooling system. And I'm a teacher, ha. But nowadays it's so hard to raise them and stay alive, the family is only parents, often only a mother, and they're being beaten and criticized on daily basis. The model of family is fucked up, it was never a job for only two people. "Enjoy yourself, you've got time before you have kids" is a fucking lie that ruins decades of life. But you go either with the system or you go absolutely punk, putting your hand into the fire. We don't have parents to help us, if they're 60+ for their first grandchildren. Our kids will not raise ok if they get ipad or phone to shut up when mommy wants to stay sane, because she's alone. Community, tribes, big and young family. This died out concept hurts us most of them all.
2025-07-15 22:54:35 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 4 replies ↓ Reply
So true. All by design so women work too. Then they get two cash cows, slowly increasing taxes, stealthily, until it is impossible to live on one wage! When I joined the Fire Brigade I earned less than half what I earn today but could buy twice as much! That is the world they want us to be in
2025-07-16 06:58:09 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
I'm all for women working and choose freely whatever they desire, but once the work is necessary to the point it pulls mothers from their tiny babies as a norm instead of pushing them together to do their thing, something is rotten. In czechia we have three years to stay with the child at home, it's still not "that" fucked up in our little place. But the problem lies much deeper than with state support. Child is not an achievement anymore, a future to people. We get them too late, when we figured out too much without them, maternity is obsolete. I see too many single women going full bitch by the age of 36, it's like there's the age where she starts building walls.
2025-07-16 07:16:26 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
While I agree in principle, you know what is also true? Kids will be just fine. Even with iPads. Kids are incredibly resilient and the only thing you need to do is to be comfortable with yourself, because - surprise - they will turn out to be you. And yes, my only regret is that I didn’t have kids as soon as I could. 40s would be immense fun with adult children.
2025-07-16 08:06:19 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
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2025-07-16 11:51:07 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
The individual behind this account has an insight here and there but definitely leans towards a very shallow and insecure perspective of masculinity. They latched hard onto that alpha wolf study that the author has renounced and clearly explained his mistakes. They also haven't seen or willfully ignored the gorilla studies showing that the highest testosterone highest stature gorilla initiates the least violence and the most prosocial behavior in the troop.
2025-07-16 12:10:01 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
You can have anything you want but you can't have everything you want. I busted my butt on my career until my first kid, lots of plans for future promotions. Now I'm coasting in my current job leaving stacks of cash on the table because more money would mean more work.
2025-07-16 12:12:35 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply