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Malos10 yesterday
I am so happy to announce that I am going to be a dad and you are literally the first people I'm telling about it image I took this photo yesterday when we found out. We were sitting there full of emotions, and when we realized it, our three cats were there with us at that moment. The pregnancy test results indicate that she/he is only 3 weeks along. image A new nostriche is coming. Love you all #nostr #plebs #plebchain thanks for changing my life for the better!

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Malos10 yesterday
It's the most important news in my life so far
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Malos10 yesterday
🫢🫢 thanks youu i would like to read advices from people that already have kids hahaha im nervous
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Whats your best for when they are babies? I like kids and i can take of them but i dont know nothing about babies
Just care for them. When they are babies they just need to be loved. Also obviously feed them, change diapers when they need it Lol πŸ˜‚. They sleep a lot, my advice when they sleep, you should too. You will need it and because you're going to be up a lot when he or she wakes in the middle of the night to get fed or change it diaper.
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The beginning of a new journey!
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Uuugg that's what everyone says, sleeping is a thint haha
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The cat at our side is our bigger/older cat and he LOVES kids, if he hear the cry of a baby he runs and star prruing
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There wiiill be a lot of photographs!! I know these time happens so fast between the stress of the lack of sleep BUT i do know thats only temporary so i will try to enjoy it
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zoΓ© yesterday
ahhh malos!! qué lindo!! felicidades, que el universo bendiga a tu familia ❣️
Congrats! Thanks for mentioning my zine! @Malos10 you don't have to buy it, you can read the whole thing in the preview. It focuses mostly on pregnancy. I recommend reading Happiest Baby on the Block. Or at least looking up what the 5 S's are. It helps with newborn babies. Gotta say the first three months were tough. I was healing and learning how to care for a baby.
Oh something I didn't mention in the zine: look into getting a doula. This is a woman who will make your wife and you comfortable during birth. She is like a support person who knows what she's doing. And make sure she knows about lactation support (how to breastfeed) because that is not intuitive! You have to learn how to do that while you're still being stitched up or whatever.
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