Don't get me wrong, I stare into my phone as much as the next guy. But every time I see a group of people sitting at a table, together, with each person staring into their own phone as if they were alone, I find myself shaking my head. I guess I'm a grumpy old man now.

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STERRY 1 year ago
We play a game in my family. If anyone notices everyone else is looking at their phone they put their phone down and say, "everyone's looking at their phone but me."
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frphank 1 year ago
Phones are more real than reality sometimes I think it's legit
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REH 1 year ago
Nah I’m 29 and even I cringe when I see it. Technology has allowed us to keep memories forever, but we’ve lost the magic of the moment. It’s a blessing and a curse 🫠
Missed opportunity for ‘Dan’t get me wrong’, but I agree with the sentiment. It’s sad.
I totally agree I feel exactly the same in the tube when I see everyone on their phones
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JoJ 1 year ago
A grumpy old Dan
Totally with you. It’s just good manners to keep your focus on your companions, if you’re lucky enough to have them. Phones have their place, and I’m on mine a tolerable bit, too.
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Hades 1 year ago
I like to watch out the window when takeing the train. Everyone else is looking down.
I like to raise my eyes from my phone, pass immediate and swift judgement on all over table phone users , and slink back to Reddit
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joiestylotus 1 year ago
It’s sad! It’s why most people’s ability to have a face to face conversation with people has deteriorated so much!
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Plastycko 1 year ago
Somehow I find it unlikely that a grumpy old man would use nostr...
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NostrDANus 1 year ago
There is a typing... Should be: "I'm a grumpy old dan now."
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Chrys 1 year ago
If you're a grumpy old man, so am I. Being an elder GenZ, I always preferred sitting at the edge of a pool at night and talking shit while our feet were in the water
You didn't ask for advice, but here you have it anyway. 😄 Get a second simple-cellphone. Just for calling and texting and leave your smartphone at home now & then. Or take times to do your online things on a pc a few days a week. You'll be a great example to the youth and maybe the grumpy old man will leave you.
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Manuel 1 year ago
Watching these kind of scenes always takes me to leave my phone for a while. Don't wanna be like that
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_ 1 year ago
My rule is always if I’m with anyone and we’re socializing (in any way) phone is off limits
I made a small jammer for 2.4Ghz and the 3G cell bands back in the day. Great way to entertain yourself while having a coffee, much more fun than just shaking your head.