When do you tell kids the "truth" about Santa🧑‍🎄 What you do is STFU, let kids be kids, let them discover truth as they grow. They will tell you when they need to know more. I will guarantee you no one is in prison today or living on skid row because they believed in magic for "too long" as a child. I have also noticed the people advocating for not telling kids that Santa is real, generally are pathetic people who are miserable and can't stand others being happy. Lastly most also are childless. If you are childless you really can STFU about how parents do the work or raising kids. No one needs your opinion Karens.

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I did the "we aren't lying to our kids about Santa" thing. If I were to do it over again, I'd just neither confirm nor deny, but let the grandparents go whole hog.
Santa is meta-real. He has been around longer than any of us have been alive, and will be around much longer until after we're gone. There are more people who know him around the world, than there are people who know us.
I think mine is already gaming it. Knows how things roll. If she was to state not believing it would result in less presents. Was pretty exited meeting Santa though so maybe there's some belief left also.
Santa is real, his story has been abused and co opted by the consumer heavy world🙏 The incarnation is one of the most "magical" moments in history. The God of the universe humbling Himself to the point of taking on human flesh, and being under the care of His creation. This event is the anchor to reality and is worthy of our celebration. Isaiah tells of the virgin birth some 800 years before the event (796-767 BC) Isaiah 1:3 ESV — The ox knows its owner, and the donkey its master’s crib, but Israel does not know, my people do not understand.” Isaiah 7:13-14 ESV — And he said, “Hear then, O house of David! Is it too little for you to weary men, that you weary my God also? Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel. Isaiah 9:6-7 ESV — For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and of peace there will be no end, on the throne of David and over his kingdom, to establish it and to uphold it with justice and with righteousness from this time forth and forevermore. The zeal of the LORD of hosts will do this. Isaiah 11:1-5 ESV — There shall come forth a shoot from the stump of Jesse, and a branch from his roots shall bear fruit. And the Spirit of the LORD shall rest upon him, the Spirit of wisdom and understanding, the Spirit of counsel and might, the Spirit of knowledge and the fear of the LORD. And his delight shall be in the fear of the LORD. He shall not judge by what his eyes see, or decide disputes by what his ears hear, but with righteousness he shall judge the poor, and decide with equity for the meek of the earth; and he shall strike the earth with the rod of his mouth, and with the breath of his lips he shall kill the wicked. Righteousness shall be the belt of his waist, and faithfulness the belt of his loins. Luke 1:30-35 ESV — And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” And Mary said to the angel, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” And the angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy—the Son of God. image
I think that very astute. And when they DO figure it out, we and hopefully they, can bear in mind this quote from Teller (of Penn & Teller): "I think that the idea that your parents will sneak around and slip presents under the tree is much more beautiful and important than the idea of Santa Clause."
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Henry 1 year ago
When she was about two she used to talk about how it wasn't real, now she is a bit of religious zealot about it all, even telling me to go to bed early because I might interrupt him 😆 image
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Commander0G 1 year ago
The kids of my work colleague played along believing in Santa until they were in their teens because they thought their dad believed it and they didn’t want to destroy his beliefs.
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Chase 1 year ago
I'm a Christian, so maybe that is why... You tell your children whatever lies make you feel good about yourself. They will survive this hell world or they won't. Not my problem, but thanks for stopping by. Hope Santa was good to you this year. Take care and may the Lord have mercy on you.
So just tell your kids about StNicholas and let them pretend with all the other children. Then they can grow up with the legend and the source material.
From my perspective, and as I've told my grand kids, 'when you make up a story about your adventures with your pet dinosaur, that's fun and creative, but when you make up a story about whether or not you punched your brother, that's a lie, and that's wrong.' For one, I think that is a MUCH more important message and differentiation to get into your kids minds and hearts. Secondly, as creatures made in Gods image, we are to be creators, and thus creative, so while it can be debated whether the story of Santa is an expression of that or not, I think the idea of never 'lying' to your kids is not reasonable, possibly not as caring as you seem to intend.
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Chase 1 year ago
Or they can grow up with none of this crap holding them back
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Chase 1 year ago
Life is hard. There is no magic. The sooner they realize that, the better prepared they are. Now, they can fantasize about reindeer and red bearded guys all day long, but I would not be the one telling them their fantasies are real when they are not. Every life form in this planet is passing to their offspring the raw reality, except humans, who are teaching their kids that some old man comes down the chimney to give them presents because they've been such good kids. Just love them and support them. Don't lie to their faces. Or do. I do not care, they are not my kids.