Well, I have some people that stop following me...no blood pressure, just curiosity why, because at some point we did interact. Like @Gigi for example and Source (can't add him with @) ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

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๐Ÿˆ 2 months ago
Mood mismatch. Person A in one mood, person B in another. They unfollow for a while. Refollow later. Honestly, follow label is not a very good way to judge relationships. Need some better way.
lol. Oof, the tag... It's usually a client error, but sure sometimes it's real. It's just easy/natural to feel judged, but there are many possible reasons, and we shouldn't confuse "follows" with friends anyway imo. Or even liking someone for that matter
I don't judge... People can unfollow me if they wish too. But it sparkles curiosity at my end, when is someone I do care. @Gigi I think it was because I made a joke about the "Gigi and" x number" others. I don't even remember the joke, It was just me being silly as usual, and no harm intended but coincidentally or not, he did unfollow me. I understand that sometimes, some jokes can sit not well. I am aware. I have a friend here, that I know on real life that also unfollowed me. You would never guess we are friends and talk outside Nostr. It's weird, but I do respect and let him be.
Was not a conscious action. I follow almost a thousand people and use so many clients and other stuff that messes with my various things that I have to recover my bookmarks, my metadata, and my follow list periodically. Don't read too much into it.
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