Do you know of a good way to find out who from your own follows is following someone you would rather not have access to the WoT, so you can add your follow to the list of dumb dumbs?

when you have a black and white list you can override just those npubs instead of unfriending your tard frens. 🫠

Way I understand it, adding folks to the tard list doesn't unfollow them or anything. It just disregards their follow list for building the WoT.

Looks like a good client to use for accomplishing this is #Coracle. When you look up an npub and pop over to their followers list, Coracle displays folks you are following at the top of the list.