Contrary to popular belief marriage is awesome and very satisfying and fulfilling. If your algo or surroundings are convincing you otherwise just know that there are very happy couples out there and they are living amazing lives together. They don’t often talk about it as loudly as those who are miserable though because they know it’s rare and needs to be protected from the envious eyes of the world. But if you look you will start to see it everywhere. Most women are not dumb sluts and most men are not cheating assholes. There’s a lot of really good people out there. You can find yours if you’re willing to look and put in the effort it takes to sustain a life with someone who wants the same things as you.

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AnnSofiNovelist 2 months ago
This is why I wrote the book, "How to prepare yourself for marriage: the practical and Christian path to meet, date, marry, and stay married to the spouse of your dreams", because too many people don't know what they're doing, and they want to get married bit they're scared of it cause of all the bad marriages they've seen and don't want to repeat! Marriage is awesome!!!
Even if we talk about it, nobody wants to hear it, as it's so dull. Not enough crazy drama. Oh, we are happy. Everything is going well. Kids are good. We've gotten more active in the bird watching club and have taken up Nordic walking... image
Contrary to popular belief, marriage can be difficult, exhausting, and deeply unfulfilling. If your algo or surroundings are convincing you otherwise, just know that there are very unhappy couples out there and they are living miserable lives together. They don’t often talk about it as loudly as those who are happy though because they know how much society pressures people to pretend everything is fine. But if you look, you will start to see it everywhere. Most women are not perfect partners and most men are not devoted husbands. People can hurt, betray, disappoint, and fail each other. There are a lot of really unhappy people out there. You can end up with the wrong person even if you’re willing to look and put in the effort it takes to sustain a life with someone who ultimately doesn’t want the same things as you. And the truth is, both types of experiences happen. Some people find marriage deeply fulfilling and build amazing lives together, while others experience disappointment, loneliness, betrayal, or misery. Neither experience is universal, and neither should be treated as the only reality.
Whilst I completely agree I’d just like to raise the questions of defining marriage? Because the state or church says so? I call my wife, my wife and we have the bond and family we constructed together. It’s still a beautiful thing to recognize this in the way that suits you. What I want to emphasize is that the bond comes and is constructed from within.
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Vezire 2 months ago
Having a family is such a wonderful feeling and I hope I’ll be lucky enough to find my future family & unconditional love and trust. View quoted note →
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MG TEK 🚪 2 months ago
Marriage is the ultimate goal. Marriage is the foundation of society. Marriage is the bridge between humanity that’s thriving and pure human extinction.
Yes, marriage is a different relationship than cohabitation. Contracts matter. They change things. Also know couples that fell apart after marrying. So odd to me, but 🤷‍♀
What a bullshit. As if LOVE (a feeling) needs facts and an etatist framework. Id rather cohabitate then subjugate my love to the state and its frameworks.
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nobody 1 month ago
*the fall river ones (it is pronounced fall rivah, with emphasis on the 'ri' part of the word)
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nobody 1 month ago
*whatever the fuck THEY like
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nobody 1 month ago
Billy Joel wrote this song about the fish populations dwindling in 1989; was this before or after the last slew of billionaires and other roman catholic and their derivatives had three or more children? Oh the album is called storm front; does it have anything to do with my mothers cousin Storm who was attacked with a digital god being voiped to his head, and then being marginalized by the military and his family members for having a 'crazy' experience that could have been caused by heat or stress or something else mundane?
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