Can agree, many of us have discussed, submitted and commented on them. It was not for lack of consensus, but lack of a real solution that provided a better outcome than securing a single key. Also including mine.

"treat me as the npub in this attention" is no harder than revocation, but no one calls nip-09 overbearing

What are you talking about? Nip09 is not implemented by most clients. It's only relay implementations that are saving everybody by deleting records. Clients generally never delete records, it keeps showing until the user reinstalls the app.

do you think there is no solution?

No solution without significant security drawback. My biggest hope was Frostr, but the finished design is not that different than a remote signer that you can just grant access to any key you want. No need for the frost stuff.

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