Personally I think if a new person comes to nostr and sees the big accounts whinging about nostr they aren't going to stay. I post constantly and I engage with responses almost always. I don't constantly say negative things about nostr. So who is really the flywheel and who is the death spiral here?

Its a fair point. Im doing everything I can to push good content. Im out here behind the scenes producing a lot of it. I cant control other people but this is what I can do to contribute.