Slight detour from the actual question, this is more in response to the replies, and will be a controversial opinion, certainly is with my wife, but I think parenting has gone backwards since we abandoned physical discipline. Young kids aren’t yet rational yet you’re going to solely rely on reasoning with them? Without the threat of that additional escalation, you are limited in your ability to properly set boundaries. I feel hamstrung as a parent and find the modern approach absurd. I grew up with physical discipline and believe I am better for it. Should be absolute last resort, but it needs to be there else your kids don’t take you seriously.
