I’ve come to realize that life takes time. There’s no quick fix or instant improvement. It requires time and investment in yourself and your partner. You’re never truly ready to be a parent. I understand trying to establish yourself and waiting to have children, but not having children at all is strange. I understand how the system works; I’m living in it. Sometimes, you just have to do something you don’t want to do to earn a living. Skip the drama and you’ll have plenty of time. Having children teaches you a lot about life and makes you appreciate it even more. So No to DINKs

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Agreed, except I think there's no point of getting married unless you're ready to have kids. That said, if you're ready to get married, you're probably ready to have kids too.