eeehhh
it gets pretty complicated pretty fast.
basically if miners increase the blocksize, theres a penalty on the block reward.
so there have to be enough fees to make it worth it for them
the simplest description is probably this one


LocalMonero
How Monero Solved the Block Size Problem That Plagues Bitcoin — LocalMonero
Whenever individuals discuss the problems with blockchain, one of the first words to pop up will be 'scaling'. Monero sets itself apart in solving ...