Right! lol. It’s a power user’s feature in my view… at least the ability manually configure it all is a power user’s feature. I used to love tinkering with my devices, not just nostr but my computers running Linux, my Android devices running custom roms, my iPhones back when jailbreaking was big, and so on. Then came the day that life got too busy to always be doing that, and I just need my technology to work well enough to do what I need it to do. If it does more, then I’m happy, but I also don’t care if it isn’t perfectly optimized for the absolute best performance according to this or that dev’s analysis. I’d wager most people don’t care either. We just want to use the app. Devs who don’t get this are out of touch.

i don't get what you mean by that the logic is all inside the client, it just grabs events of users relay lists and uses them as a starting point to searching for events that aren't found on your own relay lists and associated configuration. if you aren't a nerd then what are you doing writing client software for a decentralised post-office/pubsub protocol?