My favorite lightning wallet for Nostr is definitely nostr:nprofile1qqsd79ejwuvz7v246danxqs3hgw7f2q4qrqz6x27je8er0nhfmykwzqpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduhsuuuu4j, simply for the "Nostr Wallet Connect" feature. Pro-Tip is to browse with Mutiny and Amethyst in split screen so you can get that one-tap-zap experience, straight from self-custody.
Fun fact: I'm still rolling with the same 200k lightning channel that I opened on the day I first tested the app at the Nashville Lightning summit. This channel will probably serve my zapping addictions til the day I die, unless nostr:nprofile1qqsrf5h4ya83jk8u6t9jgc76h6kalz3plp9vusjpm2ygqgalqhxgp9gpr3mhxue69uhkummnw3ezumt4w35ku7thv9kxcet59e3k7mgpzemhxue69uhkkmr0vd4k2mn8vyh8xmmrd9skcqguwaehxw309ahx7um5wghxy6t5vdhkjmn9wgh8xmmrd9skctylktc implements NWC
https://video.nostr.build/9be7325d418e01734f4b8701ab6bc87fce9875293772ec54a61c5936f43cf800.mp4
