yea i actually do agree with you on that as far as funcional ux goes. complex functionality should be made friendly to normal users and foot-guns should be eliminated, 100%.
i think i was referring to a different domain that i'm not sure how to label... the software functionality should be effortless, but the real experiences should remain tangible and "hard".
Maybe an example is building a community on nostr... Ideally, this would grow organically out of repeated human interactions. even if there are some tools to help filter and curate, at the end of the day, your community will be better if YOU build it in a kind of human process, than if some platform feeds it to you.
that's more what I had in mind. not "make software ugly and hard for normies to use"
