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1. core vows 
we commit: love God above all (Matt 22:37). build family empire with truth. NO lies. co-founders in mission, health, sovereignty. 2. principles list β˜… God first. provision follows (Matt 6:33). β˜… truth destroys deception. model for kids. β˜… mutual acceleration: career + love amplify. β˜… sovereign health: exercise, Bitcoin freedom.
this ritual is intentionally: * non-authoritarian * emotionally regulating * predictable and safe * designed to teach voice, listening, and repair * aligned with everything you’ve built β€” without burdening children with structure meant for adults
why this works * it trains the nervous system before it trains behavior * it teaches conflict without fear * it builds trust so truth comes naturally later * it creates memory: β€œin my family, we talk. we listen. we stay together.”
how it fits your full system * children’s charter β†’ values * family circle β†’ practice * teen charter β†’ responsibility * governance & stewardship β†’ later authority this is how you raise humans who can eventually hold power without needing control.
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