This morning, I listened to this conversation and @npub1cxw2...nt7u says everything I’ve been thinking and feeling.
I haven’t shared much about our situation because I don't want to be a complainer and honestly, it feels embarrassing, but I know I'm not alone in this.
I never expected that at that this stage of my life, as a young parent, so much of my energy would be focused on surviving financially, instead of enjoying my son’s childhood.
My husband works around the clock at two jobs to keep us afloat. I earn what I can, but I’m not finding enough work (or should I say paid work, because as a mother, I have plenty of work).
We qualify for “free” daycare here in Finland, but in exchange we are taxed up to the eyeballs (whether we use it or not).
We don’t live extravagantly; we don’t go on trips, we stick to free activities, we moved out of the capital to a cheaper area, and virtually never eat out.
Recently, I saw a poster for the circus and thought how lovely it would be to take our three-year-old. Checked the tickets: 100 euros for us as a family of three.
Having a family in this economy opened my eyes and I finally understood why we need Bitcoin. If I didn’t have that, I think I might feel completely hopeless by now.
That’s the truth of why I want to bring Bitcoin to more people, and especially women. It’s never been easy to be a mother, but what if it didn’t have to be this hard?
View quoted note →
Login to reply
Replies (9)
Thank you for being courageous enough to open up about some of the challenges you are facing in this economic environment, definitely not an easy thing to do. Well done for doing your best, both you and your husband, to keep your heads above water in a system that is designed to crush young families unless they choose to sell their souls to the state. I just want to encourage you to stay strong and to not give up on your dreams as the system tries to bleed you dry. Bitcoin and Nostr combined have made it possible to earn outside of the "eye of sauron's reach". Your best days lie ahead and I will keep you in my prayers.
Thank you for your prayers and encouragement, we will not give up 🙏
I thought you were doing better in the North. 😂 Same here... I was looking for 3 opera tickets, and the total was €450. 🤷 Maybe the only advantage in Central Europe is that it's easier to travel, you get a train and in 1 hour you're out of the country.
Wow 😱 There are lots of things to be thankful for here, but I think rising living costs are hitting every Western country. On top of that, Finland currently has the second-highest unemployment in the EU. Lots of people being hit by layoffs 😅
Amen to that! 😊🙏🏻
What would advice would you give your son if he was in the same situation?
I’m a father of two which are nearly the same age as your son. Since having kids I ask my self what would tell my kids if the were in the same situation? Helps a lot.
Probably what we are already doing, which is trying our best, supporting each other, having faith and stacking as much Bitcoin as we can 🙏
Thank you for your honesty. I know I belong to the last generation that could afford the ‘luxury’ of bringing up my own children - and even then I was in a minority. How have we got here? Something has gone very wrong with modern society - that the mother or father of young children is forced to hand over the most important work there is - bringing up the next generation - to a stranger - while they go out to earn money to largely cover the costs of the babysitter, with a bit left over to cover the rent and basic necessities. Not because they want to afford luxuries. Nor because they view their career as a greater priority than bringing up their offspring. Even sadder is the number of women who have been taught to believe that a paid job is worthwhile, bringing up their own children not. We will have a heavy price to pay. Thank god for bitcoin.
And when you look around at all the empty parks and communal play areas , because all under 3s are in daycare, and young mums working, you realize how terribly, terribly lonely it must be for the odd mother who is still trying to be the primary care giver. You need a community to bring up children. True then. True now.