a goldilocks thing ultimately, to me anyway
good rubric to navigate by
not too hot or too cold, finding your peeps who are just right, sure little wobbles, but never thrown into a pot of boiling water
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people dont like to feel beholden
beholden feels manipulative and exhausting
this cultural is very unwell and transactional
takes a lot to learn that some things really are free, would happen with or without you, exist beyond reciprocity, simply are
a tree does not grow branches and leaves to make shade for you in the summer
a tree does not grow to become your firewood or a chair
a tree is on their own tip doing their own thing, can be grateful for the shade, but it wasnt made for you