@The Daniel π, why do you have ws://100.91.242.134:4848/ in your outbox if we cannot connect to it?
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Aaaaand the relay shaming begins.

*nervously looks through my own relay set*
Because it's my Umbrel Nostr relay and my clients donβt have outbox relay settings.
If they don't have outbox settings, why is it even there? If we can't access the relay, it should not be in your outbox list. It makes no sense.
Okay, man. I see you have very strong feelings about something most users donβt understand and shouldnβt have to deal with.
Agree. You shouldn't have put a relay that is not public there.
Where else am I supposed to put my private relay if my clients only have one place to put relays?
Explain this in as much detail as necessary, including how to remedy this, because no clients make any of it clear.
Your clients don't support your private relay yet. Putting into your public lists just fucks all your followers up.
Sounds like you should be talking to other client devs then. Iβve been running my private relay for 3 years and this is the first time anyone has ever mentioned it.
Why? I am not the one that misconfigured my own relays. This is not about clients. It's about configuration. You shouldn't try to force your way into clients that don't support what you are trying to do.
Nobody understands anything youβre talking about. How about starting over by not blaming the users for client developers not making their apps interoperable?
I am talking to you, not nobody. You clearly understand it.
I followed the instructions on this page. Go yell at @Umbrel βοΈ if their documentation is inaccurate:
βConnect your Nostr client (e.g., Damus, Amethyst) to your private relay for seamless backup of all Nostr activity. In Damus, add your Relay URL via Menu > Relays.β

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Defensive programming: dealing with the messy state of existing data yourself.
Offensive programming: trying to force others to clean up the data so you don't have to deal with it.
Where can i bet oN the outcome?
In a totally unrelated note to your conversation, the private relay on umbrel automatically syncs your notes from some main relays, so no need to connect the client at all π€
I donβt think thatβs true. Iβve removed it from my relay set before and it stops syncing.
I donβt know. @NowClaw has a heads or tails game but it doesnβt seem to be awake today.
I would never lie to you, but you might have to activate it


I actually tried to do that and it gave me an error message. Any suggestions on how to fix?


π this seems borked.
I hope @Umbrel βοΈ can help here.