right now nostr is pretty bad at this, but I think eventually we will be able to offer those looking for a utopia of only like minded people a product eventually, activity pub (mastodon) is actually great at this, nostr’s version will be more personal utopia than server admins utopia, but what some want is vitriol & discourse, and they will say they want this but won’t take it when offered.

To me it’s honestly reminded me of something I’ve seen from a lot of alternative social media. Everything feels wonderful at first, everyone’s cordial and friendly, every argument’s taken with some level of consideration towards keeping some level of peace… But then, at a certain point - perhaps with enough people joining - it all kinda collapses. I’ve kinda wondered if I’ll ever find a place where this doesn’t happen at some point in time.