I basically lost half my wealth in my separation so its desperate times

I learned that loosing wealth is temporal. It happens sometimes. Like when Sonic looses his rings. Loosing your soul can be permanent tho, and obvs no shortage of fingertraps out west. I went to work in the alpine up 99 keeping plebs safe, and currently bootstrapping and training at 12,000ft. Both happier and healthier than the huge tech salary days. Totally get that that you have responsibilities, but I think play a straight line and and good things are ahead. A zen fiat mining gig with a side hustle or two sounds like it could be a good plan. Outdoors and sunlight ftw