vega is supposed to have its own internal strifry server but i haven't run it. wanted to see if the environment was pleasant enough to use before bothering to set up stuff like pyramid or whatever. so far its very hard to find actual people here.

Oh i heard a little bit about stirfry, but i think pyramid would be ideal if you wanted to run off your own relay also part of the reason is prob because of web of trust being implement, which makes you more discoverable, but if i recall, it requires people to follow you. supposed to help with the spambots there's a few people i think you'd like to follow here who can point ya in the right direction