It's going to vary person to person... Most of these I agree with, some not so much. My honest take: Sex drive is the last on the list, mine is low. Sense of humour, loyalty/commitment, and nurturing personality are far more important when looking for something serious. Lots of social media followers are a massive red flag though. Same with designer wardrobe. From experience, these are sus. Career and wealth can be a bonus, but not a dealbreaker..