Oh that's good. We didn't even make anything official till like the 5th date. But the first 4 were back to back since I had to travel a long way.
But basically when we officially started dating we were already talking engagement. She just wanted to be surprised, but she is very observent and was skeptical that I could pull it off. Challenge accepted and mission accomplished! And not in the George Bush manner.
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Same.
He asked me what my dreams and plans for my life were, on the first date, and I said, "I want to get married and have kids," and later he asked if I had plans for Sunday, and I said, "Going to church," and that was basically a wrap.
We were engaged 2 months in, but the wedding wasn't until about 10 months, later, so that my American relatives could arrange to attend.
I also got a romantic proposal, with a diamond ring, but it was already completely obvious where this was headed, by the appetizer. 😂
I find it sort of shocking how some women will just sort of hang around some guy's bedroom, for years and years, and have no idea, if he wants to marry them. I'm like, well, did you ever ask him? No, the topic never came up.
What in the world do these people talk about? 🤷🏻♀️
Lol. Yeah a few months in to dating my wife demanded a timeline. I was like sheesh, I had to move 600 miles, find an apartment and a new job, and you wanted to be surprised by a guy who refuses to tell lies, I'm working it as fast as I can!
But it was actually very nice even though I was secretly already making plans. Knowing that she would say yes whatever happened made it all very unstressful and easy. She didn't want to get engaged, she didn't want to get married, she wanted to be married. World of difference.
