Lol. Yeah a few months in to dating my wife demanded a timeline. I was like sheesh, I had to move 600 miles, find an apartment and a new job, and you wanted to be surprised by a guy who refuses to tell lies, I'm working it as fast as I can! But it was actually very nice even though I was secretly already making plans. Knowing that she would say yes whatever happened made it all very unstressful and easy. She didn't want to get engaged, she didn't want to get married, she wanted to be married. World of difference.