But ODELL is pretending we should want our posts linked everywhere and discussed without us receiving notifications or being able to join in the discussions Why the fuck would we want that? Only if we can't compete organically and don't actually want decentralized censorship resistant social media

Social media posts are just one of many uses for what Nostr can be used for, and those are linked to an NPUB, not necessarily to a person specifically unless they so choose. But I agree there is still a huge amount of development needed for things like search, notifications, NPUB management... Etc...