Replies go to the "read" relays on 10002. If the user has a paid relay on the read list, it means that the user doesn't want to receive any reply from a user that is not a paid member of that relay. (Or it is a mistake, which I think it is).
In @Nathan Day case, he will only receive replies and see notifications from authors that are paying for nostr.wine
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* Replies go to the read relays of the author of the post the reply is replying to AND the read relays of each person mentioned in that post + the reply post AND the write relays of the author of the reply.
To get all the replies of a post, you should query the read relays of the author of that post.
If they are paid, only paid accounts with be shown.
Looks like a need to look at my relay setup then!
Wen PHD in relay management? ๐
Just add nos.lol or nostr.mom to your inbox relay list or the "read" part of your outbox setting
Thanks for helping me improve @Nostria (by only having private relays) and great you added some public relays, it will give your followers and yourself a better experience.
Explains why @Pokey has been a little quiet ๐