Thank you very much for this.
I did not even realize this was a kind of "coming out" until you named it. I understand the whole idea behind it is to choose to assert myself no matter if somebody cares or not. It is actually mostly about being true to myself...
Nostr helps me in the sense that here more than anywhere else online I can feel the possibility and freedom to be myself, because being uncensorable is rooted in the protocol and expressed by many people here.
Of course I want to be seen and loved, and find people I resonate with, and you make me feel just that. But at the same time it is a bonus in the process!
My smoothest experience with wallet and nostr was using coinos.io and connecting it via nostr wallet connect on Amethyst, if it helps!