So set your relay policy how you like. Nobody's telling you how to set your policy. Libbitcoin's run wide open since 2011 though. And LibreRelay is too. Core backed off their gentleman's agreement because it wasn't stopping anything but was hurting mempool visibility. You can still set datacarriersize how you like though. It won't work any more now than it did in 2024 but you can do it.