How about the court of public opinion? I thought a lot of us where here to spread adoption and move everybody to a bitcoin standard because its a net positive for humanity? If you want an underground secret money for drugs then maybe go hang out with the monero guys? No need to drag BTC down with you because you think BTC isn't "cool" anymore.

All nodes matter the same. One is not more important than the others.

Sorry, but that's nonsense. MY node it's what matters to me. And YOUR should be what matters to you.

And they have the same weight in the network... That's my point. It's not nonsense.

Please explain to me what do you mean with "weight in the network", because it's not clear at all. Also, what do you mean with "network" itself? Do you mean the p2p relay network? Do you mean the mining block templates network? ...

My nodes vote counts just as much as yours

What?!? Bitcoin is not about voting. What do you think it is? Run your own node with your preferred rules, and that's what would be valid for you. Everyone sharing the same consensus rules would be "in consensus". That's all. There's no vote anywhere.

"...Underground secret money..." Yes.