That's one of the reasons why @utxo the webmaster 🧑‍💻 (sorry to drag you into this) removed Tor support from Wisp: people like convenience and would never tolerate a slower Twitter/Instagram/TikTok replacement. But we could all have a local relay, either something like Citrine or in the client, which fetches all notes from our followings and things would be fine, performance-wise.