I’m not trying to ‘sound smart’ since I am not at all smart with this stuff lol. And yes I am serious, can you briefly explain?

Sure! First of all, I do care about Bitcoin spam. I'm just not very concerned about its impact on Bitcoin because Bitcoin protect itself with transaction fees. Second, I do believe that attempts to filter transactions are technically. We have empirical proof for this. Third, deciding which transactions are good or not is a centralizing force. It's like censorship which requires a ministry of Truth, or ad block lists that require someone to create this lists. We don't want that. I'm happy that so many people really do care about Bitcoin. But there are actors in the space that have rallied up. Many people to be extremely angry about a non-issue. That's something that the enemies of Bitcoin will abuse. Hope it clarifies at least a little bit.