The attitude of the OP is, by the way, the type of cuckolded psyche that is destroying Christendom. “You should just tolerate and show kindness to every degenerate ruining your society!” No, that’s not how it works. Christians did not have this idea until modern post-Scofield movements. Forgiveness *must be sought*. It must be given, but it also must be asked for. The guy that stole from your children doesn’t deserve kindness when he is sitting on top of his pile of stolen gold mocking you. That’s not how it works.