The whole purpose of dating would be to make sure you want to marry someone. You don't "get used" to being married. What you're suggesting is that some people would get married, realize they don't like each other, and then get divorced. In which case they should've never have gotten married in the first place.
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But the pressure to get married is high. And I'm sorry but taking two individual lives and combining them into one does take getting used to.
The best description I heard was that you're like two rocks trying to fit together and you have to wear the rough edges and sharp points that don't quite fit together down over time to fit together. My paraphrasing is awful, I know but it's about being pieces of the whole and that's what we're all aiming for.
Sure it does, but you already made the commitment to do it. Commitment should mean something. Gotta get used to having kids to. Getting used to things is just your entire life.
That's what makes the whole process beautiful.
