This resonates with me. Every day, after I put my kids down for bed, I clean the kitchen. My wife is mind blown by the regularity I do with it and that I donβt complain about it.
But, I often throw on a podcast and just get lost in the process. After, I get satisfaction that itβs done (and done right) and I can start to unwind for the night.
I actually get a little annoyed when my wife does it for me π