have another example, way more mundane say you are married and your husband or wife is depressed, a roommate, a partner, a sibling, a friend who is crashin with you, whatever the point of being in mental wellness is "i got it. no sweat" like "yo im so grateful that doing the dishes is no big deal to me" "hey man, im fucking stoked i have the executive function to do laundry and it's easy"