This really is a pointless question. Women will lie to you and to themselves on what they find attractive. We have hard data on what women find attractive in dating apps. 90% of women go after the top 15%-20% of men. If you want to attract women then you need to get as close to the attributes of these "top" menas possible. Lets not lie to ourselves our make it more complicated than it is.
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My wife and I just had a long discussion about what makes some guys unattractive. I’m curious what women on nostr have to say about this topic - what makes a guy unattractive to you?
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Didn't say that. Just don't ask questions that will lead to lies. You don't ask a fat person to list what they eat because they won't tell you everything. You don't ask a woman what they really find attractive because they don't want to sound as base and animalistic as they are. Look for revealed preference rather than stated preference.