Not in my case! Full of hidden agendas, always playing mind games, and moving goal posts so there was no way to win. I don't know about jealousy, but it seemed like it. There was evidence of competition too.
No every parent is a good person.
I was quite relieved that I wouldn't have to encounter him when I learned that he died. I knew he would never acknowledge his abusive behavior, unwarranted insults, or blaming me for being related to my mother; much less apologize like the man he taught me to be.
Fuck those types of shitbags. Ditch them, and never regret it, as staying in an abusive relationship is self disrespect.
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You won't become a man until you forgive him
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You obviously did not have abusive parents. Very inconsiderate of what others went through. Many people have parents that are inherently selfish and abusive.
Forgiveness solves nothing and often allows for further abuse. It’s better to just let them go.
Forgiveness is in the heart. You can protect yourself without holding onto a grievance. Those are two separate things.
That’s spiritual materialism and a meaningless statement. Grievance and forgiveness are the same thing. Just depends what side you are looking from.
If a father sexually abuses his children, that child needs to grieve and is justified. The father needs forgiveness. But it’s the same event about the same trauma. You are just changing the words you use to describe a division that’s not there.
More importantly to tell a sexually abused child they need to forgive their abuser is literally toxic. It’s gaslighting them for severe pained caused. Same goes for any kind of trauma or pain.
This idea that both sides need to forgive is a foolish Christian belief… no sane person can actually live by it in practice without causing severe harm to themselves and perpetuating the behavior. By doing so you are forcing the grieving person to accept it and reinforce it in the other.