Nostr zaps don't support BOLT12, not without a bridge that uses a centralized domain name. I’ve never seen BOLT12 supported in an actual desktop wallet. Phoenix is Android only. I’m supposed to rely on a smartphone for privacy and security? Come on man. “All you need to do is adopt a fringe technology that is only available in a phone app that nobody uses.” At this point, you have ceded that Monero is superior.