You're approaching it from the wrong side. Of course if you frame it like that relays become a burden, my entire note was just to say you should try to frame the fact that relays exist and they're different from each other as a good thing. I don't know what is the best way to solve that, but it has to be solved, you can't just ignore the relays and hide them entirely. Well, you _can_ do that actually, but if you do it will just mean you're condemning Nostr to be a centralized garbage fake protocol, and at that point why waste your time in it anyway?