Marrying the wrong person will destroy your life.
Choose wisely.
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I see it every day. Truly sad.
PREACH!!!
Easier said than done. Shit happens.
Electing Gavin Newsom will burn down your city.
Praying this for each of my kids!
Been married to my best friend for 25 years and counting…and agree 100% with this post!!!!!
What makes you say that ?
Life experience
Louder for the people in the back!! Know so many people who fell in to lust thinking it was true love and got married quick and divorced even quicker.
Praying yes but are you guiding them to make the right choice ?
Choosing a wife is an economic decision.
Just like choosing which car or house to buy.
Choosing wrong will definitely cost you.
But she touched my pee pee.
One of the best advices that can directly impact your life.
I think many start not really knowing themselves, marry, and often start to discover they are living through another’s lens. This doesn’t mean it’s wrong, just a journey of discovery. Sometimes may actually lead to something more meaningful. Life isn’t straightforward, we are bound by many almost predestined life lessons to work through. The intertwined relationships of 2 families is a big journey also.
So ultimately…. Yes be careful 😂
Every single day through every difficult conversation.
The woman you marry is never the same woman you divorce.
Marriage is all about compromises, finances are at the top. Everything else, is also a compromise.
Finances will destroy a marriage… Bitcoin fixes this.
😂 it do be like that. Pee pee touch doesn't mean wife material...doesn't not mean wife material either. After the pee pee touching, you should be able to communicate with each other about more than the next time she's going to touch it.
I married my best friend and we've evolved to who we are from who we thought we were, and will continue evolve. If one can tolerate that, that is more valuable than bitcoin itself. 😉
Maybe 'evolve' wasn't the best word, but my I cannot brain no more today. 🤷🏻♂️
A decision made even harder as you will not be the same person in ten years and neither will the person you marry. Find someone who will grow with you.
Advice from someone happily married for 15 years.
But she touched my pee pee.
Some people are destined to stay together. For many reasons 🤙
How will bitcoin fix this?
True that. 🤜💥🤛
It doesn't.
Bitcoin is math.
Bitcoiners are humans.
Humans are highly fallible.
Couples/families need a money that doesn’t continually lose value over time.
Not saying finances is the solution to a successful marriage, but it inherently plays a big fucking role.
Zapped thaaaaaat
Especially if they are a vindictive cunt.
Try to find someone with similar goals. Honesty, trust, morals are obviously very important. Be careful with high maintenance individuals. Remember the golden rule. Even choosing wisely being lucky comes into play. Some people grow closer. Some apart. Under the best of circumstances, it takes work, compromise, give and take. I got lucky and found someone who put up with me for 31 years and counting. I'm very grateful. Hasn't been easy but worth it. It's good to have someone to hang on to. @BitBees is my best friend. We made it to the good times. Arguments happen but don't last too long. I usually end up apologizing because it's my fault. Life's too short. I hope everyone finds the peace of mind I have. 🙏
And marrying the right person will save your life. Only time will tell...
What are some of the biggest things that make someone “wrong” for you in your opinion ?
Lack of shared values.
Are there any things that you thought would be important that are not, and vice verse? I’m making this decision now with someone Is why I’m so curious
Nothing matters except shared values and desire to stay married for the long haul.
What are some examples of values you think are important to share ?
Ok tard
True facts. I have watched so many of my friends and acquaintances ruin their own lives one by one. 🫗
Religious beliefs.
Financial plans.
Beliefs about divorce.
Retirement goals.
Number of Children.
Sex frequency
Etc…
All the big stuff
we're still working on the sex frequency over here ...
Married or not yet? If frequency is too low for your preference before marriage, that's noteworthy. Usually it doesn't improve after marriage with kids and life stressors
I will say, however that we went from twice a week to daily when I retired her thanks to bitcoin.
it was mainly a joke.. all good over here 😎
Hahaha Bitcoin fixes this
Yes that is true humans are highly fallible. Bitcoin improves the variable, that is centrally controlled monetary policy
Why you'd never get the state involved in your relationship with a female
You filter out the bad ones
This is humbling, honey. Our partnership is everything to me. It has been one of the hardest things I ever did, because I care more about it than anything else. It was a lucky day when you looked my way. Meant to zap you 100, (but, I obviously miskeyed in my nostalgic revery…). You’re worth every Sat 丰 ♡
*reverie
I am going to say something controversial but if you meet your future wife at a young age and you guys get to mature and grow together before marriage is really advantageous. You both would have gone through childish and naive times together and coming out of that and growing together in ideology makes a bond of trust that is impossible to break.
this is beautiful
Choose wifely.
Needs to be talked on a podcast
Choose not by appearance, but by what a person is guided by in life, by his moral and ethical guidelines.
Yes, but also: Make it work you fuckwit
Had my wife buy over 2 bitcoin in the $50Ks and she held down to $16K and never sold. Plus I didn’t show her how to sell lol
No, it will only destroy your life if you let it.
It is just one wrong fork along the pathway.
We all fuck up. Some will moan about it and have lifelong regrets and others see it as an opportunity for a new beginning.
What will destroy your life is staying married when you are unhappy. Always look forward and create the future you want. Learn from the mistakes. Study why you failed. Look within yourself.
If you are from a healthy solid family background and your wife is from a fucked up background - you increase the chances of failure ( my situation ).
Everyday wasted in the wrong relationship, is a day you can’t spend in the right relationship.
Man it really did
Ditto.
Thankfully recovery (life/trauma, for me addiction) is possible 🙏
Thought it might help :)
Twenty-nine conversations, from the book “The Defining Decade” by Meg Jay.
This is really important!
Thank you for sharing this. I read it all!
You’re welcome!!
You won;t accept though? 😢
Even dating the wrong person can potentially destroy your life... a friend wasn't even married but had a son with "person". This person throws about 500 officers at his house for doing nothing basically.
He's had child safety people monitor him and his son.
He's had his child been told to speak no English while in their presence. (despite his birth language being Spanish)
He's had his father accused of touching his son.
All the while she's on OF and feeding the kid 2minute noodles for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Let's face it, it's not the wrong person that can destroy your life; it's the unlawful order thrown at people BY the wrong fuckhead.
This gives me hope
always my fear
As divorce seems to destroy your life it could also be the very thing that brings you closer to God. That makes it a win. 😊
bruh
making babies isn't dating. that's common law marriage.
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your dude was an irresponsible jackass and got his desserts 🤷🏻♂️ big fucking deal
re reading this. anyone with half a wit can see that your friend is a douchbag. and you are blocked.