What about if we teach kids (and adults) that words can't hurt them and that listening to every asshole they meet is a waste of life and time.
Instead of trying to control the actions of other @daniele (which is essentially what the argument of "some speech is harmful to me") lets teach ourselves that our reactions to whatever has been said gives the words power.
Same goes with powerful speeches that moved events in history. The speech itself might have inspired, motivated or enraged the masses, but it didnt kill anyone. People did.
Its the same argument as guns - they dont kill people. People kill people. Because they choose to act. I can tell you every bad word in existence and you will not be harmed. You can choose to ignore me, go away, you can punch me in the face if I come to close or I'm harrassing your kids or wife in public. But I can say the most vile thing under the sun.
I dont nees to be listened to. I don't need to be accepted to bars or restaurants if i spit out garbage and annoy people. I dont need to be given attention, audience or anything else, I cant demand anything of anyone else. But I can say whatever the fuck I want.
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I already teach my kids this. That words should not harm them. Build armor and deflect mere words.
This is pretty much what I wanted to say but was too lazy to 🤣
Kids are naturally tough. They don’t need to be coddled so much. I was called all sorts of things growing up and it never bothered me much. Eventually you grow to realize that those are weak people and you don’t need to give them any attention and that makes you stronger.
Anti-fragile is a good philosophy.
This is a really nice theory, but it do not always work in practice. Who teach? Parents right? And when they teach harmful actions? And if kids cannot understand?
Often suffering is caused exactly following this path. There are places in the world where people consider normal an high violent environment, and equally normal use more violence to try to put some order. It's an escalation without end.
A strong culture about kindness and value of lives is the final solution, but until this naturally arise some laws are necessary to agevolate the process.