I agree. But that still doesn't mean they should have had me at the time they did, in the state they were in.

If not for their illnesses, I would say it was immoral and unethical. But it just was. Given you seem to be of sound mind and body, cheering them on would have been immoral and unethical, according to my position. I'm glad you're here too, but that doesn't mean I don't think your position is any less arrogant and out of touch with reality.