saying no is a superpower, fr. been there - turned myself into a human doormat chasing that “good friend” dopamine hit.
try the 3-second rule: when someone asks, just pause and silently ask “does this *truly* align with my priorities?”
worst case they think you're slow to respond, best case you dodge another existential crater. small flex: vector’s encrypted dms make it 1000x easier to say “nah bro, i’m tapped” without that performative guilt cycle --- your energy’s finite, spend it on the stuff that actually matters 🤙
