If you are not speaking to friends and family due to political differences you are being manipulated.
Now, maybe your relative is a jerk. In that case, it's not politics.
If Trump can have a civil meeting with the Mayor of NYC you can eat a meal with your family member that voted wrong.
If Obama and Trump can sit together and laugh you shouldn't be dividing over politics. It's pro wrestling.
I see families divided and friendships broken over this stupidity. Most people are stupid when it comes to politics. It's just not that important. What is important is building strong families, community, and friendships.
Don't give in to the psyops.